Good Morning My Friends!
Many of you know this, but for those that do not; September is Deaf Awareness Month. As the month continues to celebrate the Deaf community, I wanted to share a few insights from my perspective as a Child of Deaf Adults (CODA).
Everyone's life experiences are different, including every CODA. Mine at the end of the day was a positive experience and I continue to be more grateful as I age.
Here are five lessons that I have learned that apply to everyone.
1. Communication is Key: As CODAs, we often become proficient in spoken and signed languages. We learn at a very early age that clear communication is necessary.
The opening chapter of my book Mom Dad Not Hear includes the story of when I first learned.
2. Empathy and Understanding: Most CODAs can foster empathy and understanding for diverse perspectives. CODAs often develop a deep appreciation for different cultures and experiences.
In a recent speech to a multicultural business resource group, I highlighted the common thread between every single culture we encounter. The HUMAN thread, we are all humans.
3. Advocacy and Empowerment: Many CODAs become advocates for the Deaf community, using their unique experiences to raise awareness and drive positive change.
There is a sense of protection that many CODAs have for the community they are deeply rooted in. Everyone has their specific style and as with anything else.
4. Cultural Identity: CODAs often navigate between hearing and Deaf cultures, developing a unique cultural identity that blends elements of both worlds. Some argument could be made that CODAs are part of a third culture group.
For those who are paying attention, you'll see that Third Culture Books is the imprint in which I publish my books under.
5. Resilience and Adaptability: CODAs often face challenges related to language barriers and societal expectations. These experiences can foster resilience and adaptability, valuable skills in any context.
In the chapter titled "Heavy are the Hands that Bear the Signs" I talk about the necessity of CODAs to take on chameleon-type features and how that has benefited me greatly in my professional career.
My friends, sharing my perspective, stories, and lessons is one way I've come to realize that I can support the Deaf community.
Through my words, I want people to know I had a positive and unique experience growing up as a CODA.
So as you travel through this month, my ask is that you take an opportunity to learn about the Deaf culture.
Book Recommendations this week
An entertaining fiction read with Deaf characters: True Biz by Sara Novic
A recent release laced with points of wisdom and perspective from Deaf contributors: Success Wisdom: By Deaf and Hard of Hearing People by Karen Putz
A great story if you're a fan of sports: The Boys of Riverside: A Deaf Football Team and a Quest for Glory by Thomas Fuller
A great graphic novel for your young reader: El Deafo by Cece Bell
A great book by a CODA (a very biased recommendation): Mom Dad Not Hear: 30 Powerful Stories and Lessons about Leadership, Life, and Love from My Deaf Parents by Mickey Carolan
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